How to Process a Change in Your Life

Many people are looking for changes in their lives. They are searching the Internet; they are talking with their friends, family and even strangers; and they are going to religious services to seek out how to make a change and have a different life.

However, in the beginning taking charge of our life can become a difficult task to accomplish. My experience in taking charge of my life was fun in the beginning, hard in the middle and then once accomplished forgetting about the long term effects of the change.  It is like a dieter that starts a diet, loses the weight they wanted, was proud and healthier, then went back to their old eating habits and gained the weight back. 

A dieter like this is shocked when they wake up one morning and see their weight back and shouts: ”What happened, I thought I took off this weight?” Yes, they did take the weight off and felt great and went back to their old life and the weight was back. My change had to do with medical problems and establishing an exercise program to walk once again. It was hard, but do you know what made the difference in my life?  It contained 3 steps in processing a written plan for me to establish in my mind.

1) Why do I want to change this in my life – write down your answer!
2) What is my motivation and what is my commitment – write down your answer!
3) Start at that very moment – don’t say “I’ll start this weekend”.  Don’t do that – start immediately at this moment.

I will share my walking motivation statement with you as an illustration of creating a motivation statement.  I read this each and every day and it motivates me to get up and move by body by walking. Don’t use abstract language-make it personal. The “who”, “what”, “why” and “when” language needs to be incorporated; such as:

“My motivation is I do not want to ever go back to sitting around and inviting major medical problems to take control of my body and my attitude because I enjoy being the very best person I can be for my family. I never want to forget how I had to crawl around on the floor of my house to get from one room to another because of bursitis in my hips hurt so bad; I don’t ever want to forget how my blood sugar as a diabetic was always high; how breathing was very difficult for me and when I got fluid in my left lung and getting pneumonia because of my non-activity. I am motivated to never ever let that happen again in my life because it was my fault. Carrie Latet says: ”Walking gets the feet moving, the blood moving, the mind moving”.  Movement is life and that is my motivation. When you are move – you are enjoying life.”  

It doesn’t matter what you are trying to change; however, it is for sure that it takes determination, commitment and motivation. After you establish your 3 processes in making changes in your life – read them every day even after you have accomplished what you wanted to change.  

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Rosalie Sep 21st 2009 07:23 am Never Give Up Walking 4 Comments Trackback URI Comments RSS

4 Responses to “How to Process a Change in Your Life”

  1. Judy H. Wrighton 21 Sep 2009 at 5:50 pm link comment

    Just got back from a session with my medical doctor for an auto-immune that flares up now and again. She suggested walking as the perfect excercise. Yikes. Where had I heard that?

    Thanks for all your encouragement.

    Judy H. Wright aka Auntie Artichoke, family relationship author and speaker

  2. Kristina von Rosenvingeon 22 Sep 2009 at 2:18 pm link comment

    Rosalie,

    Your post got me thinking more about motivation and change. I really liked your personal example. I was a little unsure if I followed the sequence because the dieting example intervened. Was there an event that first got you started (the beginning) and did you then stop taking care of yourself after you accomplished your goal (the end)? What got your started again with a new mindset? I am currently exploring the power of mindsets and just wrote a brief blog about it. http://www.growwithkristina.com. Your three thoughtful steps appear to be the motivation behind your new mindset in order to create lasting change.

    Kristina

    (A friend and I walk most days).

  3. Your motivation statement is powerful! Why? Because you are taking charge of your own health and life. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

    It’s so important to remember that in order to be healthy and stay healthy, whatever our goal is, we MUST have a plan to help with motivation.

  4. Bette Dowdfellon 23 Sep 2009 at 2:01 pm link comment

    One easy change I’m really looking forward to is on its way: Phoenix will soon stop roasting, and I’l walk outdoors instead of mall-walking. Yippee!

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